Dress Code
Hindu Wedding Ceremony
Festive Formal Attire - we are hearing a lot of enthusiasm for wearing Indian attire, which is encouraged - so we’ve provided some information below to help those who are not familiar. Please feel free to call Tommy, Tara, or their parents for help. Note that Indian attire is not “required” and any festive formalwear is welcome.
Welcome Party
Summer Cocktail Attire
Reception
Black Tie Invited (Suits for men, tuxedos welcome! Summery evening attire for women. We’ll be on grass, so block heels recommended.)
Indian Attire
Please note that due to global supply chain issues and the state of COVID in India, some stores are experiencing shipping delays. We recommend placing online orders by early July.
Women
Please find a guide to types of attire below, followed by recommended stores for shopping - both brick & mortar and online.
Salwar Kameez
Salwars come in many styles - Salwar Kameez, Anarkali Suits, Patiala Suites, Kurti Sets. Look for “wedding (guest),” “festive,” or “party wear” styles. These are the easiest styles to purchase and wear - tailoring is usually not required, and they can be worn easily the day of without help.
Lehenga
Lehengas are a preferred style for young ladies, consisting of a blouse, skirt, and chunni (also called a dupatta). Similar to salwars, look for “wedding (guest)”, “festive,” or “party wear” styles. Lehengas can be found pre-stitched, but tailoring may be required to get the blouse to fit just right. The store you purchase the lehenga from may have a tailor or recommend one. The blouse and skirt are very easy to wear, and the chunni is relatively easy to drape as well - draping styles can be found online or on YouTube.
Sari
Saris are classic attire for adult women. They consist of a blouse, an underskirt, and a long piece of fabric that is pleated and draped. There are many types of saris - we recommend any style made from silk, which can be found at a variety of price points with wide selections. The blouse is stitched from a piece of fabric that comes with the sari, and is made to fit by a tailor. The store you purchase the sari from may have a tailor or recommend one. Draping a sari takes practice. The tailor can pre-stitch the pleats, which will make draping much easier the day of, and resources can be found online or on YouTube for how to drape.
Men
Please find a guide to types of attire below, followed by recommended stores for shopping - both brick & mortar and online.
Kurta Set
Kurta sets consist of a shirt and pants. Look for “wedding (guest),” “festive,” or “party wear” styles.
Sherwani
Sherwani styles consist of a jacket and pants, and can be more formal than kurta sets.
Nehru Jackets or Vests
Nehru jackets or vests can be a fun way to elevate a kurta set. Look for “Nehru Sets” or a vest that can be paired with a Kurta Set.
Brick & Mortar Shops
Boston
Chhabra Bridalwear in Cambridge
Smita Boutique in Burlington
New York
Nalli’s in Iselin for Kanchivaram Silk Saris
Manyavar in Hicksville or Iselin for Men’s & Women’s attire
Sai Bridal in Hicksville for Men’s & Women’s attire
Online Shops
Men’s & Women’s Attire, Jewelry, & Accessories
Men’s & Women’s Attire, Jewelry, & Accessories
Men’s & Women’s Attire, Jewelry, & Accessories
Women’s Shoes & Accessories
Men’s & Women’s Attire
Women’s Jewelry & Accessories